Eat to Live

I don’t have a diet. Jenny Craig got a diet. Seriously. I eat to live, not to die.

Bernard Hopkins

There are so many quotes attributed to Ben Franklin that we hear still today.  “Eat to live, don’t live to eat’’ is one of those quotes. Franklin believed that eating in excess should not be one’s favorite activity, rather they should eat to stay healthy, not over indulge. Further, he feels that eating shouldn’t be your favorite activity, but rather what you do to be healthy. While you may not agree with Franklin’s philosophy, it’s important to note that he lived for 84 years, which is well above the average lifespan of his time.

There seem to be two schools of thought on this topic, eat to live vs live to eat. I have been in love with food for most of my life. I love to cook and get so much happiness out of preparing a delicious meal for my friends and family. I also have been an emotional eater most of my life, using food to eat my emotions and feelings. Food has been a great source of comfort during the difficult times of my life. These actions put me solidly in the live to eat category. I love to plan menus, shop for ingredients and create tasty meals. Food has been much more than fuel for me and many times my day revolves around what meals I will be eating. 

On this health journey, I am trying to shift my relationship with food to find a healthier balance. Knowledge is power, so I have been studying the role of nutrition on aging and longevity. There is so much to dive into and I am at the beginning of this learning, but my goal is to focus on what I need to eat to live. I can definitively say that I have not been eating foods that will help me live to see my 84th birthday like Ben Franklin did. I have long been a vegetable hater and most meals didn’t include vegetables or fruit on my plate, aside from the salad. 

Understanding what food makes me feel energized and what food makes me feel sick is an important first step. I have been exploring whole food plant based meal planning to improve my health. There’s excellent scientific evidence that many chronic diseases can be prevented, controlled, or even reversed by eating a whole food, plant based diet. 

A whole-food, plant-based diet is based on the following principles:

”Whole foods”: That means whole, unrefined, or minimally refined ingredients.

“Plant-based”: Food that comes from plants and is
free of animal ingredients such as meat, milk, eggs, or honey.

My readers know that I am about simplicity always and this shift feels huge for me. It is not realistic to expect that I will go cold turkey and eat only plant based meals from day one. To make this shift feel more doable, I have implemented the following shifts:

• Progress not perfection – I am giving myself grace knowing that small changes will have a compound effect and not sweating the slip ups along the way.
• Focus on one meal at a time – Reworking my whole menu at once causes major stress for me. I am focusing on one meal at a time. My breakfast was clean, so I am leaving that alone for now. I am focusing on my main meal of the day and trying to rework that to WFPB.
• Reduce animal products – I am working to reduce animal and dairy products, but again it’s not all or nothing. Thinking about “never” eating a meatball, or mozzarella cheese again causes major FOMO for me. Right now I am hoping to introduce meatless days with the premise that they will increase in frequency over time.

An eating to live approach suggests that we need variety and essential nutrients. My living to eat mindset adds the emphasis on pleasure and enjoyment. I believe both mindsets are essential to my success, which is why I am taking it slow and hoping that the natural shift to craving more nutritious foods happens over time. Then I know I will feel the same sense of pleasure in planning, cooking and eating these healthier foods. I will let you know how it goes. 

For more information on WFPB eating, check out Eat to Live by Dr Joel Fuhrman and Forks Over Knives Plan:How to Transition to the Life-Saving, Whole-Food, Plant-Based Diet. Also, check out the Blue Zone and You Are What you Eat A Twin Experiment, both on Netflix.

If you have any questions, or want to share your journey, please reach out to me at laurakump@reclaiminghealthblog.com , on Instagram , or in the comment section below.